{"id":109,"date":"2008-03-14T00:13:07","date_gmt":"2008-03-14T00:13:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/amperzen.com\/blog\/?p=109"},"modified":"2008-03-14T00:13:07","modified_gmt":"2008-03-14T00:13:07","slug":"act-your-ageand-that-is","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/amperzen.com\/blog\/act-your-ageand-that-is\/","title":{"rendered":"Act your age&#8230;.and that is???"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/o\/ASIN\/0761125183\/ampedesistud-20\/\" title=\"Age Doesn't Matter Unless you're a cheese\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/images.amazon.com\/images\/P\/0761125183.01.LZZZZZZZ.jpg\" alt=\"Age doesn't matter book cover\" align=\"right\" border=\"3\" height=\"200\" hspace=\"4\" vspace=\"3\" width=\"134\" \/><\/a>For me, thinking can be a pretty exciting trip through my brain which tends to be filled with lots of bit and pieces of fluff I&#8217;ve collected over the years.  Today, I was doing something &#8212; can&#8217;t remember what just now, probably thinking about eating a breakfast cupcake (I had cereal instead) &#8212; but as clear as clear could be I heard mom telling me to act my age.  So, I got to thinking&#8230;how do you act your age?<\/p>\n<p>It seems to me that if I&#8217;m my age and I&#8217;m doing something then I&#8217;m acting my age.  All my life I&#8217;ve had people say either to me or about themselves &#8212; I\/You can&#8217;t do that at your age.  Why? If you <em>can<\/em> do it, why not? I&#8217;ve got long hair &#8212; or had, it&#8217;s growing out again from a donation to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.locksoflove.org\/\" title=\"Locks of Love\" target=\"_blank\">Locks of Love<\/a> &#8212; but family members (female) keep telling me that at my age I should have short hair because long hair on a person my age looks <em>silly<\/em>.  Why?  If it&#8217;s clean and neat and I like it what&#8217;s silly about having the length of hair I feel comfortable with.<\/p>\n<p>Personally, I just don&#8217;t get this <em>thing<\/em> about having to curtail activities you like because of some magic age that after or before which you&#8217;re not allowed to do this <em>thing<\/em>.  Okay, I get not drinking before you&#8217;re of age and not driving before you get your license &#8212; those are laws and reasonable ones set up so that reasonable behavior can be expected.  But there aren&#8217;t any laws that say after age 45 you must have short hair if you are a woman, or no white after Labor Day, or no motorcycle riding after 50, and so on.  Who makes up this stuff?<\/p>\n<p>I do know that I can&#8217;t do a lot of things I used to do simply because my body isn&#8217;t up to it any more.  Climbing steep trails is a lot harder than it used to be (arthritis in my knees) but if I take it easy and don&#8217;t push I can usually make it to the view at the top.  But, the thing is, I pretty much know my limits and I take appropriate (I think) precautions .  Same with a lot of other activities &#8212; I like a lot of music that I&#8217;m told I should not like at my age &#8212; again I like it so obviously people my age do like it,  or at least some do.  I try to not pass judgments on others  and expect the same courtesy in return.<\/p>\n<p>But, the real question is where do these <em>rules<\/em> come from? Who made them up? Did the North Wind forget to blow this knowledge into my ear at the appropriate time.  Is there a list?  Not that I intend to follow the advice\/rules,  but it would be interesting to see how many of those <em>shoulds<\/em> that I&#8217;m ignoring at my age.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For me, thinking can be a pretty exciting trip through my brain which tends to be filled with lots of bit and pieces of fluff I&#8217;ve collected over the years. 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